Superficial

su·per·fi·cial - adj.
Of, affecting, or being on or near the surface: a superficial wound.
Concerned with or comprehending only what is apparent or obvious; shallow.
Apparent rather than actual or substantial: a superficial resemblance.
Trivial; insignificant: made only a few superficial changes in the manuscript.
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People say hurtful things. People analyze someone when they have no clue what's behind the reason. I mean there are obvious reasons to have an opionion about someone or something they do; she's a stripper, my philosophy is that she doesn't respect herself. If I could ever "carry it out", I would never even consider this. Standing at McDonalds drive-thru window is more of a career than taking off your clothes for people you don't know. I mean there's no talent in being a stripper. You learned to undress yourself when you were four years old, at least with working at the Mickey D's drive-thru you've actually had training for the position. And even though I try not to judge a person, you just gotta wonder what kind of morals one has to be able to get up in front of a bunch of strangers and show themselves in that manner. Sorry, just my opinion.

Point being: I would never go up to, let's say....my husband's boss, whom happens to be friends with lots of strippers.... and say that I think they are all bad people just because they take their clothes off night after night for people they don't know. That's my opinion, I'll keep it to myself and I have a right to have that opinion..... but I don't have the right to share it. At least I don't feel it should be shared. Having a right to share it is one thing, but saying hurtful things is another.

I know this post probably isn't gonna make sense to a lot of folks, but it makes sense to me and this is my blog where I come to vent..... so I am.

In closing: Remember what you say could be very hurtful; just remember that you're more than likely the one who is alone and have nobody to share a meaningful fulfilling relationship with. Alone. It's you that goes to bed at night and only cuddles with a pillow..... perhaps because you're too superficial to see past the outside glam and take the time to get to know someone, who they are. Of course... more than likely it's you yourself who really isn't worth the time to get to know. Remember that next time you judge.......