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Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Calling a truce....

So, I guess all my dirty little secrets are out. Not really, my life isn't exciting enough to have many "dirty little secrets".... but I'm 110% happy with just the way my life is. I've made it pretty clear how much I hate any kind of drama in my life.

My husband advised me the other day that his co-workers found my blog and began to read. Not that I've said anything in this blog that I wouldn't voice anyways. A few of my opinions must have arose some issues (even though that was the furthest from my intention). A few days later I recieved an email with a lot of points being brought to attention. I was a bit confused about the email at first, but after reading it several times I began to appreciate the effort and the desire to call a "truce" (if it even qualifies as this). Needless to say there were things that were able to be brought out and discussed (if you can call email transactions a way of discussing). It boiled down to a comfortable point of understanding (at least on my part it did, as I hope it also did for him).

Maybe I shouldn't think everyone's out to tear me down, to take what I have. I conveyed that I wear my feelings on my sleeve, and for the most part I do. I'm the first one to admit my faults and know that I'm not a perfect person, my husband tells me I do that more than I should. But if it's one thing I will never do is not voice opinions on my beliefs and stand firm with those beliefs. All I ask is that one shows the same respect as I do for them.

I feel that was done. I'm comfortable with the way things went, but being who I am and going through what I've been through, I will never let my guard down. I think he can now understand and respect that about me.

So, to him........ I say Thank You.

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